Blogger Template

I have been changing my template since the starting of this blog i.e. 6 months ago I started making my blog and I have been changing my template and still have not got a perfect template.By a perfect template I mean which should have the following features-

1. It should be a (very very) beautiful blogger template.( I tried to search these types of templates on "the-free-blogger-templates.blogspot.com" )
2. It should not be a magazine type blogger template.
3. It should not contain more than 3 columns.
4. There should be enough space (width) for the column which contains the posts.
5. A template good for search engine optimization.
6. Should be adsense friendly.

I have tried to search for the templates which fulfill my requirements on many different sites like btemplates.com and falconhive.com and themecraft.net , google.com , answers.yahoo.com , yahoo.com mashable.com and many others.By searching on answers.yahoo.com, I mean asking the users for a good template.

After so much of hardworking I got this template named Japanese Fleur but I am still looking for a good template which can fulfill my requirements.

I am also looking for a good social bookmarking widget like "Share is Caring" but I am not getting it.Can anyone please suggest me some good templates and widgets? I really need them.